Life in a Host Family during Ramadan in Palestine: For my ten weeks stay in Hebron, I have been placed with a host family of four children and the two parents. I was put in contact with the oldest daughter two weeks before my arrival. I was really looking forward to be living with a Palestinian family, as I expected to take part in their family activities, meals, and conversations in Arabic. I have spent two nights in their home so far, and my expectations have been met and more!
I arrived on a Sunday afternoon, two weeks into Ramadan. One of my host brother showed me to my room and around the house. I was quite lucky to have my own bathroom and bedroom. As the rest of the family was resting, I was left alone to also rest and get comfortable until iftar. This first night was overwhelming, but also a lot of fun! Before diner, my little foster brother invited me to do arts and craft with him, after offering me a bracelet as a welcome present. When dinner was served, I was impressed with the lovely presentation and the variety of dishes on the table. Stuffed grape leaves, bread, salad, yogurt, and dates were on the menu. The dining room was vibrant with conversations (in Arabic!) from all six family members. After iftar, my foster brother and I finished our piece and I was invited to join the family to a gathering at their grandmother’s house.
Over there, I was greeted by multiple cousins and children, excited to practice their English. I spent most of the evening sitting and listening to the multiple conversations going on around me, trying to understand some words. Apart from introducing myself, I did not take part in any of the Arabic conversations, which was to my benefit, as I was still very tired from my morning travels.
I slept through my first night, but I asked my family to wake me up the next day for Sehar. The next night we had dinner together again, and I went to bed early, ready to be woken up at 3 am for the last snack. I was surprised to find that three other members of the family had joined us for this meal. Just like the other nights, I was welcomed by the newcomers and enjoyed listening to the fast and lively conversations.
Today, my third in Hebron, I decided to fast just like my family, as I have done Sehar with them earlier in the morning. I am excited to take part in another iftar with them, this time having actually refrained from eating and drinking during the day.
To summarize, living in a Palestinian host family in Ramadan is so far an amazing and enriching experience. I am very happy and grateful to be included in their circle and to be fully immersed in the Palestinian lifestyle and culture. Written by Caroline Vary-O’Neal
